giving: things to feel better with.

Here’s some inspiration for gift giving that offers a bit in the way of comfort and cozy, and that extends an invitation for getting out of your head and into your body.

These gifts have been handpicked by me from small shops and businesses offering thoughtful goods made with care. If you have recommendations for other indie folks making similar wares, feel free to add them in the comments! The more the merrier.

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Floral essences, like the ones made by Alyson Morgan of Earth Star Herbals. Because everyone could use an extra holiday helping of boundaries and protection.

Herbal teas, like the ones all wrapped up in compostable and plantable parcels from Rhocoe. Because short days call for warming drinks.

Long Johns, like the 100% organic cotton ones from Object Apparel, handmade in Detroit, Michigan. Because winter is far more tolerable when you’re warm enough.

A special talisman, like a morse-coded silk and gold bracelet from Coatt. Because a wearable reminder from someone who loves you might make all the difference on a dark day.

A personal massager, like this forest green beauty from Maude, for someone you really like. (For instance, yourself.)

A wine subscription, from somewhere like the genius What to Drink Wine Club out of Oakland, California, which takes the guesswork out of choosing two perfect bottles every month.

Sea salt chocolate chip cookies, like our neighborhood favorites, now shipping nationwide from Poppy’s. Because everything’s better with a sprinkle of sea salt, but cookies especially.

Hair duds, like these velvet scrunchies from Rosemarine Textiles in Detroit, because sometimes everyone needs a little something fancy.

Special spirits, like this smoked pineapple beauty from Matchbox Distilling Company on Long Island. Because an evening tipple on a winter’s night can be a welcome distraction.

Lip balm, like these chubby little beeswax buddies from Kobee. Because a lip balm for every pocket keeps the winter blues—and chapped lips—away.

Cozy socks, like the naturally colored gems from Danu Organic. Because I don’t care what anyone says, socks for presents are the best, and anyone on your list should be so lucky!

Coffee, like this Two-Spirit blend from Birchbark Coffee Co. Because good coffee on cold mornings is just about the only thing getting me through these days.

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ACTION ITEMS:

If you’re hoping to expand your gift giving this year to folks in your community who might not be a part of your immediate family, consider making a donation to a local non-profit or mutual aid organization, like the National Domestic Workers Alliance Coronavirus CareFund.

For more ideas of places to direct money and energy, my friend Anja has compiled a full and growing list of mutual aid efforts happening locally and across the country on her site Never Sleeps.