make believe: summer date.

    July 28, 2021

    All I really want is a not-so-fancy date night with a plateful of delicious food I didn’t cook and the ability to stay out past my bedtime. But while I’m daydreaming, I’ll also take:

    a patchworked skirt made from vintage tablecloths.

    a perfect bandeau for wearing with it.

    these summery slides.

    this particular plateful of chana tostada chaat from a neighborhood pop-up.

    this madder gingham turned into a tablecloth or maybe something else entirely.

    a thick brass cuff for adornment.



    In an effort to ground this make-believing in something a bit more down to earth, here’s something that needs urgent attention:

    Pick up the phone and call your senators! 202-318-1885 Tell them how important supporting a big, bold climate bill is as they work on this summer’s budget reconciliation.

    Here are the four key demands: 1) A Clean Electricity Standard that cuts pollution and modernizes our grid. 2) Directing 40% of funding to frontline communities. 3) No more subsidies for fossil fuel corporations. 4) A Civilian Climate Corps that puts people to work.

    Head to #Call4Climate to learn more about the specifics and help spread the word. Every single phone call helps.

    my week in objects (mostly).

    July 26, 2021

    1. this laundry hamper for being mostly empty.

    {however briefly.}

    2. these new buds.

    {for being there.}

    3. this thread.

    {and finally finding the time to sew some patches.}

    4. this staple gun.

    {for not jamming, maybe for the first time ever.}

    5. these old things.

    {in new places.}

    other things:

    playbook for a post-pandemic future.

    practical and natural.

    one manhattan couple insisted on keeping the sink where their daughter learned to brush her teeth.

    creating a climate-resilient childhood.

    the way we deal with being left behind.

    community collecting.

    small improvements: cleaning up old light fixtures.

    July 21, 2021
    cleaning chandelier | reading my tea leaves

    We live in a rental apartment with a chandelier, which sounds fancy, and maybe it is, but it’s taken a bit to get it gleaming.

    The chandelier that hangs in our living room is fussier by far than anything I would have chosen for myself, but I appreciate thinking about the moment in time when this small bit of opulence might have been installed. I like to imagine the scenes in this room that it’s illuminated over the years and the choice that was made by whoever it was who called this place theirs and decided to hang a spidery spray of brass and crystal from a tin ceiling.

    Last summer, cleaning up this chandelier and replacing its candle covers was the very first project that I tackled in this new-to-us apartment. I hooked a step ladder over my shoulder and walked it a mile down the road from our old place so I could reach the dangling light in our otherwise empty new place. In case you find yourself living with an old chandelier in need of some TLC, here’s a low-lift small improvement you might try with happy results. Like windows or mirrors or other things that reflect the light, taking the time to occasionally give a deep clean to light fixtures is a practically free improvement that can change the way a whole room looks and feels.

    cleaning chandelier | reading my tea leaves

    I used a pair of needle nose pliers (and sometimes my fingernails) to pry open the wires mounted to the top of each crystal and hooked through the brass fixture. (If you’re familiar with dangly earrings, you have enough expertise to do this, I promise.) It had been months since our apartment was occupied and there was a layer of dust on the fixture that needed more than a cursory once-over. I bathed the crystals in the kitchen sink in a mixture of vinegar and warm water and used a soft toothbrush to scrub spots where dust was stuck on, particularly around the place where the wire was looped into the top of the crystal. After twenty minutes or so, the crystals were sparkling. In case it makes you nervous to handle the crystals, it’s wise to work with a thick cloth beneath you in case of slips or falls. I didn’t wear a conservator’s white gloves for the task, but I was generally mindful of fingerprints and keeping the crystals as as smudge-free as possible as I re-hung them.

    cleaning chandelier | reading my tea leaves

    I decided not to polish the brass arms or body of the fixture itself. No surprise, I’m rather fond of the patina that’s developed over the years and I didn’t want to unearth any more of the brilliant brass beneath. Like most everything else I write about here, this is a matter of taste not right or wrong, so polishing the brass could certainly be something to try if you’d like to restore some shine and brilliance. Instead, I worked with a damp, clean cloth to lightly dust and remove any visible dust or build-up on the brass.

    cleaning chandelier | reading my tea leaves

    For new candle covers, I turned to Antique Lamp Supply instead of trying to DIY them myself. The plastic covers that were on the fixture’s five cardboard insulators were cracked and melted when we got the keys to the place, and I decided to keep things as simple and inexpensive as possible by replacing them with smooth flat white paper candle covers. Finding the right size was as simple as measuring the diameter of the insulators and selecting the proper covers to fit them, but if you tackle the candle covers on a candelabra of your own, you can refer to the full how-to on the Antique Lamp Supply website for details.

    cleaning chandelier | reading my tea leaves

    Nearly a year after the first big deep clean, the crystals were still clean enough to merit only a brief cleaning. This time around I left them hanging on the chandelier while I wiped them down with a damp cloth.

    Other things:

    In this and past apartments when we haven’t replaced hardwired lamps entirely, we’ve also had luck replacing light bulbs on fixtures so they all match; removing (and storing) frosted glass shades from ceiling fans for a more modern look; removing bulky pull cord handles from ceiling lights; making our own scrappy night lights, and hanging tiny lights without any hardwiring at all.

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